Valentine's Day

As we all know tomorrow is a Valentine’s Day, a doubt has raised in my mind, whether the purpose of the occasion is to express your feelings towards your love or is to promise your love that you will never let her go or is it both. The reason behind this was after all how many couples get united and get married to have a happy life.

Once a few months ago, I and my friend along with his girl friend and her friend were partying in their room and after the party got finished, both couples started pulling each others legs, which turned into a big fight and it went on till saying “I Hate You” and they both never again tired to meet. After looking into the details, I felt it could have been solved with in few minutes with a normal talk. There was one more instant, when I was working for Coke; I had an opportunity to work with a German Engineer, who told me that his girl friend bid Adieu for their relationship, because he was in some other country for three months on work and had no enough time for her.

After looking into many relationships like these, I felt where did all these feelings and promises go, which were shown on Valentine’s Day.  Are we diluting the importance of this day or are we not in a serious relationship or is it a day where you spend money for gifts, flowers & confectionaries to make the world believe that you are serious in love . I Agree that relationships break if one of them is a cheat or not serious or not truthful and a relationship does not exist if both of them are not serious or as many people call it as just for fun.

Both these points above are harmful for the environment of Love, which keep polluting the essence of Love and these spread across the societies like a virus, infecting the whole world. So, we all should not only celebrate the Day with lots of joy, love and happiness, but make sure that we ourselves don’t become the Virus.